15 November 2009 @ 03:55 pm
I have a character who is mid 30s/40s, male, Canadian. The story is set in 2100-2150 or so. So, not-so-distant-future. He's from Quebec and his first language is French. I am very torn about what to name him!

I'd like his name and last name to signal his French background, if possible. I've sort of been in love with the Jean-Something construction, but:
1. I don't know which Jean-X names are/aren't currently in fashion in Canada and which you'd expect to find in someone 100 years in the future (probably whichever names sound horridly old fashioned now).
2. Since he's going to be referred to by his first name by the other characters, whichever name I pick I'd also need to know how French speakers would shorten it (if at all) and how English speakers would shorten it, assuming non Francophone Canadians or Americans.

My research has turned up that men named Jean-Pierre or Jean-Francois sometimes go by J-P/J-F but in that case I'd also like to know how that's pronounced. Would they introduce themselves as "JP Lastname"? Would French speakers pronounce the letters in French and English speakers in English?

Finally, failing the Jean-X thing, my backup option is Mischel. I've known a few Mischels in my time but none of them were Canadian so I don't know how popular the name is in Canada.

googled: canada boy names common, french boy names, jean (wiki)

Thank you for your help!
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15 November 2009 @ 08:40 am
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15 November 2009 @ 09:31 am
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15 November 2009 @ 05:42 am
I went out with a friend I've known 27 years last night and she is a year older than me. That means, she's 53. Every little bar we went into, from the Lex to the Homestead, searching for a nice, uncrowded place to drink a beer on a Friday night in the Mission, every place - she exclaimed as if in agony, "THERE ARE ONLY CHILDREN IN HERE! CHILDREN! I CAN'T DRINK WITH CHILDREN!"

I was surprised and would look around, "But some of these people are in their 30's I bet."

'THEY ARE CHILDREN, I DON'T WANT TO WATCH THEM TALK, I DON'T WANT TO DRINK WITH THEM. THEY DON'T KNOW ANYTHING, THEY THINK THEY KNOW EVERYTHING, THEY ARE CHILDREN!"

"You know, I bet they are even a couple or three here in their 40's." I was trying to reassure her but my friend was not to be reassured and pursed her lips, shaking her head -- she would have none of it. "CHILDREN CHILDREN! LET"S GO!"

OK. I was mildly stunned. After all, we had been defiant slightly crazed punk rockers together in our twenties. Now, here we were... Well, gee... I thought, I guess I drink around these "children" regularly and I just don't think about it ya know. I just assume, I told her, that everyone in the room is probably younger than me. And, who cares? On the other hand, I look pretty young for my advanced age I am told. But... Well, why think about it?

We eventually found a cool, rockabilly, punkish het (but mixed a bit) bar and settled in to watch drunk girls dance and listen to some decent tunes from the DJ. They had great posters of motorcycle Big Daddy Roth type monsters on the wall and strange action figures on the bar. We had found our place. The people were uniformly young but there was one old gray haired guy who got up and starting dancing with a young woman. "Yea, shake it grandpa!" I said in approval, although not so loud as to be heard. It was loud, and the woman he was dancing with was writhing to the beat with weird little twists of her hips and hands. I wondered when I would start looking like that old guy in this bar. Well, I reassured myself -- hasn't happened yet, but I guess that day is coming. Wow.

My friend was very pleased to watch the old guy dance. He was pretty good actually. All gray haired and a bit wizened, but still filled with energy. The music was from his era, the 60's. Even we were too young for the songs, but we could remember them. At least, we were not, the oldest ones there.
 
 
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15 November 2009 @ 12:00 pm

This is a guest post from Sean Ogle, a former portfolio analyst who is now pursuing his goals of starting a business and seeing the world. You can read more from him at Location180. You can also follow him on twitter @seanogle. 

Have you ever thought about doing something different with your life? Maybe you’ve decided that you’d like to do more world traveling. Perhaps you want to explore that entrepreneurial idea that has always been buried deep inside you. 

For me, it was both. In my past life, I was a portfolio analyst for a small investment firm. While the job would have been perfect for the right person, I found myself yearning to do something more than just crunch numbers and help other people build their businesses. 

A few years back, job obligations cut my three-month trip through Europe down to three weeks. Ever since, I’ve had an urge to travel more, and held bit of resentment towards the normal 9-to-5. I wanted the freedom to get my oil changed on a Wednesday morning — I wanted the freedom of time

The catalyst for change occurred in March when all of my hard work earned me a 20% pay cut. I knew there was a better way for me to live. I wanted to be my own boss and see the world at the same time. 

I started researching business ideas and talking with other people who had seen success working for themselves. There was  general consensus that a combination of blogging and social networking were great starting points if I wanted to create a business online. So in May I began Location180, and set out to learn as much as I could by the end of the year. 

I knew that in order to be successful with my new lifestyle, I’d have to make changes in my day-to-day life. I’d have to do something that, despite my financial background, I’d never been very good at: stick to a budget. 

It wasn’t that I didn’t know how to stick to a budget. But my affinity for nice things always seemed to get in the way. When I saw something I liked, I’d buy it. The times I was most successful at sticking to my budget were the ones that resulted in me getting something I wanted, such as a new car or HDTV, for example. 

Over the last year, however, I’ve learned a lot about how to successfully prepare for a major lifestyle change. Probably the most important thing is to be diligent about applying the stuff you already know. For instance, one of the most important rules of personal finance is still very applicable: 

Pay yourself first
Seems like a simple concept — and it is. But I can’t tell you how many times in the past I have let bills, events, or other obligations get in the way of me putting 15% of every paycheck into savings. 

This savings is essential when you make a lifestyle change. If things don’t work out as planned (in my case, I lost my job much earlier than expected), you’ll be glad you kept it up. Automating this process is the best way to ensure it gets done each month. You can’t spend what you never see. 

To take things a step further, I’d actually take whatever you’re saving and increase it by 25-50%. This will force you to make changes that you may never have made otherwise. In my case, I became the king of bootstrapping. In order to meet my goals of starting an online business while also traveling, I adapted myself to a more frugal lifestyle long before I needed to. That has made it much easier on me now that a lifestyle change is no longer a choice. 

You should also: 

Create a budget 
In the past I’ve used both Quicken and spreadsheets with only limited success. It wasn’t until I started using Mint.com that I really started to see success in my budgeting. Its ease-of-use makes this stand out among everything else I have tried. Two features in particular helped me save more money:

  • The ability to categorize my spending in any way I see fit, and
  • Being able to track trending over months.

I had no idea how much my car cost me each month until I started tracking all of the related expenses. It was tough to realize that I was paying over $500/month for transportation alone. Dusting off the old bicycle could definitely drop a couple zeroes off of that number! 

The next step toward a lifestyle change is to: 

Cancel accounts 
It’s funny how easy it is to rack up monthly expenses. I had expenses that I didn’t even know I had! 

After careful review of my monthly statements, I noticed that there was a monthly “credit protection fee” on one my cards that had been there since I set up the account — three years ago. I also found a $7/month web hosting account for some random domain I’d purchased and done nothing with. And don’t even get me started on the gym membership that hadn’t been touched in weeks. 

By carefully looking at your financial statements, you may find recurring monthly expenses that you’d forgotten about. (Or, in some cases, never even realized were there!) This simple step alone can help you save hundreds of dollars annually. 

And, of course, the most important step to a lifestyle change is to: 

Have a plan 
Depending on the lifestyle change you’re trying to pursue, there are specific ways you can prepare. Since one of my goals is to do more traveling, I’ve decided that getting more air miles under my belt is a worthy goal. I was able to rack up around 50,000 miles from opening a new mileage card and transferring my balances. I now use that card for all of my purchases, and pay it off in full every month. 

If you want to leave your job to start a small business, consider running it part-time while you’re preparing to make the leap. Depending on the size and scale of your business, you can register it quickly to start taking advantage of some of the tax benefits right away. The ability to write off things like a home office or mileage can be a great bonus, while giving you a head-start on your business plan. 

Ultimately, preparing for a lifestyle change isn’t much different from how you’d prepare for any big event, such as purchasing a car or buying a house. While it may take a little while for some people to adapt to living on a stricter budget, finding the courage to pursue the goals you’re really passionate about will make it all worth it. 

In January I plan on heading to either Central America or Thailand to work full-time establishing an online marketing business. Despite some nervousness, my planning has put me in a great position to succeed, and I couldn’t be more excited about the adventure to come.

J.D.’s note: If you have a success story that you’d like to share with other GRS readers, drop me a line. I’m a strong believer that the personal part of personal finance is much more interesting than the theoretical stuff. Photo by Eulinky.

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15 November 2009 @ 12:34 am
Hi! I'm looking for common nicknames that could be tossed around in a contemporary British household, particularly between siblings. What would an older sister call her younger brother? Or perhaps there is no general nickname for a little brother? (I don't need a nickname that is a spin-off from the actual brother's name. I've got one already.)

Honestly, I haven't got the slightest clue. I've googled things like "British nicknames", "British nicknames for siblings", "British nicknames for younger brothers". I usually just keep getting British nicknames for people from a specific place in England or nicknames for British army units.

I know that, for instance, my little brother calls me Tata, which is obviously not my name. But, we're Cuban, and in our culture, generally, the older sister is called Tata. Just a nickname like saying "Mum" or "Dad". I was wondering if perhaps the same thing existed for the Brits.

Thank you!
 
 
14 November 2009 @ 10:59 pm
What sort of medical care would there be in the Philippines in the late 1940s/early 1950s? The character is lower class, and I'm wondering if she would have her baby in a hospital or her home? If she was at a hospital, would a doctor or midwife deliver the baby? If she was at home, would there be a midwife? How would they care for the baby immediately after birth? The baby is a girl, and her mother doesn't keep her. I'm guessing that there weren't adoption agencies then; would she have left the baby in a public place or an orphanage or something? She didn't kill her child, but the child has to get to the U.S.
 
 
Firebrand blogger and New Yorker Pamela Geller speaks in Texas about the recent attack on soldiers at Ft. Hood and Islamic jihad, and also Islam and Europe, the attack on free speech, Iran, the UN, Honduras, honor killings, the media, healthcare reform, and liberty. Well, she covers more than that, you'll see -- this speech is mesmerizing and gets better as she continues. She's tough, she's passionate, she knows her material, and she has a great accent! When she mentions "CAIR" in here, she means "Council on American-Islamic Relations" not the agency CARE. I wasn't sure myself, so I'm letting you guys know up front. She also talks a lot about the case of Rifqa Bary, a Muslim teenager who converted to Christianity, who is attempting to become emancipated from her family since she is deathly afraid that they are going to kill her.

Note: you can get rid of the ad on the bottom by touching the X... that is for the video site apparently.

She opens with a video of cops being chased by Islamic radical demonstrators in the UK, that's right COPS being chased:

 
 
15 November 2009 @ 01:46 am
Authors: Assorted authors
Titles: ...the prompts are the titles
Fandom: ...this IS the[info]piper_trickster community
Rating: G to PG-13
Pairings/Characters: ...[info]piper_trickster comm here
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15 November 2009 @ 12:00 am

A kind of "sixth sense" that allows a flamboyantly homosexual man, or masculine homosexual woman, to play up their macho/feminine side upon entering a "gay-unfriendly" area.

Les's gaydar detector was going crazy when she drove to Laramie.

 
 
15 November 2009 @ 07:21 pm
As many of you are aware, we rent in Canberra at the moment, mainly because houses prices are insane. We've kept our eyes on the market and prices have come down somewhat, to the point where they are now nearing a level where we might be able to buy here.

Hopefully once the first homebuyer's grant has gone bye-byes, prices will settle down a bit. As is fairly common knowledge, when the grant was introduced, and increased, prices jumped up by a margin significantly larger than the grant. We're not expecting prices to drop by the same amounts they went up by, but hey, even a drop of $10K makes life that bit easier.

More on Canberra and other options... )
 
 
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15 November 2009 @ 01:56 am
There doesn't seem to be much community in this community.
 
 
 
I'm wondering about flea prevention/flea killing products. My kitty is 14 years old and in good health, generally seeming like a much younger cat. She's indoor-only, and I've never used anything such as Frontline, etc, on her because we've never had a problem with fleas.

Problem is, for the last two weeks I've been staying at my mother's house to look after her dog while mom is recuperating from knee replacement surgery. Mom told me she bought some BioSpot for the cat while we are here since they've been having a problem with fleas that is bad enough she thought they were getting carried inside on her clothes, not just on the dog. I decided to wait and see as far as this goes since I really didn't like the idea of putting toxic chemicals on my cat. (Especially not for the first time at her age.)

So. She hasn't been scratching crazily or seeming to groom more than normal but I did notice today that there are a lot of tiny black specks in her fur (her fur is white and orange so they were easy to see) and I recall reading that it is a major sign of fleas. I read all the packaging on the BioSpot stuff and then went ahead and applied it.

It's been twelve hours or so and she seems fine, she's even forgiven me for putting nasty wet stuff on her and making her reek like she's been doused in DEET, but now I'm feeling concerned about having put it on her and wondering if anyone else has used this product and what the results were/is there a better or safer brand or method to use? I'm not one to necessarily believe that if something is more expensive it must be better but I would feel better if it had been a brand I'd heard of. I probably should have been more calm and waited to check it out first, I realize, but I was kind of like "yikes! she's got fleas."

Any information or general adivice regarding flea infestation would be much appreciated!
 
 
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15 November 2009 @ 12:34 am
from craigslist:

Account Case Coordinator

detailed posting )

You will get an email from support at eaglesoftwareservices dot com. This email directs you to their website & will ask you to pay $40 to download their software to process "mortgage refunds". Of course I didn't actually give them money... but I'm annoyed that I listed this as a "job search activity" for my unemployment & it turned out to be a scam. Hopefully the state won't hold it against me. I mean, how was I to know it was a scam until I checked my spam folder?!

*shakes fist at sky*
 
 
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14 November 2009 @ 10:58 pm
Hey everyone. This may sound a little strange... but I think my little guy was shocked earlier after pulling a cord from a socket. Normally I would call the vet but unfortunately she's not in until Monday and this is my first time dealing with this type of situation... so I figured a good opinion would help me a lot.

About 45 minutes ago my fiancee & I were in the living room when we saw Felix chewing on one of our lamp cords. I quickly got up to stop him.. but as I did, he pulled the cable right out of the socket which literally caused a visible spark before blowing the light bulb. He didn't show any immediate signs of injury: he was just a bit surprised and ran behind the couch. The socket was actually smoking at this point. We kept a good watch on him after cleaning everything up, checked his ears, the inside of his mouth, face, paws, etc and at least on the surface, he didn't suffer a scratch. The only thing that's concerning me right now, is that he reeks of a musky, burnt smell around his face. Obviously if he was caught in the smoke it would make sense... but I'm a little worried if this is the sort of thing that could cause physical harm without actually seeing it. His behavior seems pretty normal: he's still hyped up, playing with his toys and acting as usual. He doesn't like it when I touch his face though: he squirms.

My main question is, are there specific signs I should be looking for? I do work tomorrow pretty much all day so I'd rather not have to call out and bring him to an emergency room if this is something that can wait until Monday for me to ring his usual vet. If this is something really serious though, I'll definitely get him there asap.

I'm -really- not sure why he was chewing on the cords. We've had him since he was a little guy two years ago and this is the first time he's ever done this. Thanks for any and all help!
 
 
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